35.TheModernFamily现代家庭
Fatherleavesforworkinthemorningafterbreakfast.Thetwochildrentakethebustoschool,andmotherstayshomecookingandcleaninguntilfatherandthekidsreturnhomeintheevening.ThisisthetraditionalpictureofahappyfamilylivinginBritain.Butisittruetoday?
Theanswerisno!Thepast20yearshaveseengreatchangesinthelivesandstructureoffamiliesinBritain.
Thebiggestchangehasbeencausedbydivorce.Asmanyas2outof3marriagesnowendindivorce,leadingtoasituationwheremanychildrenlivewithoneparentandonlyseetheotheratweekendsorholidays.
Therehasalsobeenahugeriseinthenumberofwomenwithchildrenwhowork.Theyneedtoworktosupportthemselvesandtheirchildren.Evenwherethereisnodivorce,manyfamiliesneedbothparentstoworkinordertosurvive.Thishascausedanincreaseinchildcarefacilities(儿童保育机构),thoughitisveryexpensiveandcanbedifficulttofindinmanyareas.
Inaddition,womenarenolongerhappytostayathomeraisingchildren,andmanyhavecareersearningasmuchorevenmorethanmen,thetraditionalbreadwinner.
Therehasalsobeenasharpincreaseinthenumberofsinglemothers,particularlyamongteenagers.Somepeoplehaveblamedthisincreasefortheriseincrime.Theyfeelthelackofamalerolemodelhasdamagedthesechildreninsociety.
However,thesechangeshavenothadatotallynegativeeffect.Forwomen,itisnowmucheasiertohaveacareerandgoodsalary.Althoughitisdifficulttobeaworkingmother,ithasbecomenormalandisnolongerseenasabadthingforthechildren.
Asforchildrenthemselves,somearguethatmodernchildrengrowupmoreindependentandmaturethaninthepast.Fromanearlyagetheyhavetogotochildmindersornurseries,andsoareusedtodealingwithstrangersandmixingwithotherchildren.(339words)
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divorce离婚childcarefacilities儿童福利机构,设施breadwinner养家糊